Basic
Free
For private beta members and core safety access.
- Join and verify
- Limited matches
- Report and block
- Safety plan
- Consent basics
No checkout active.
Pricing preview, no payments.
Humanly Mutual may later charge for premium privacy and compatibility features. Core safety features must remain free. This package does not load Stripe or accept payments.
Plus
$12-19 / mo hypothesis
For more intentional discovery and privacy controls after beta proof.
- More matches
- Advanced compatibility filters
- More privacy controls
- Optional read receipts if validated
Payment acceptance disabled.
Premium
$24-39 / mo hypothesis
For higher privacy and support needs.
- Incognito mode
- Verified-only matching
- Travel mode
- Priority support
- Advanced compatibility
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CapabilityBasicPaid hypothesis
Report, block, safety planIncludedNever paywalled
Mutual Clarity FlowIncludedCore standard
Verified-only discoveryLimitedPotential premium control
Incognito/privacy controlsBaseline privacyPremium privacy hypothesis
Payment statusNo checkoutStripe not connected
What would make premium value credible later?
Paid value becomes credible only if the first-city ecosystem already feels meaningfully better than a broad volume-first launch.
Higher cohort quality
Premium value starts with a calmer, more accountable cohort that feels worth returning to.
Privacy that feels earned
Adults pay for privacy controls more readily when the trust case is already believable without them.
Read privacy criteriaMore useful repeat value
Later payment gets more credible when repeat use feels calmer, more respectful, and more worth returning to.
Read repeat-use valueRepeat-use proof before pricing proof.
If adults would not want to come back after an imperfect outcome, the paid story is still weak. Follow-up, reflection, and easier exits are part of the value case, not just the etiquette layer.
Respectful follow-up after a date
Show why cleaner post-date communication can make the product feel more worth returning to, not just more polite.
Read the follow-up guideWhy better exits can increase repeat trust
Show why lower social cost around slowing down or leaving is part of what a later paid product would actually be charging for.
Read the exits guideWhy post-date reflection can improve trust
Show why repeat-use value gets stronger when thoughtful adults can pause, reflect, and return without pressure-heavy momentum.
Read the reflection guide